JSP_cover JSP_cover

Jewish Spiritual Parenting

Rabbi Kipnes’ new book — co-authored with his wife, Michelle November, MSSW — is available now.

How do we guide children to be spiritually balanced, emotionally whole, Jewishly connected individuals?

Learn More & Order Your Copy

Rabbi Paul Kipnes

. Spiritual leader of Congregation Or Ami. paulkipnes paul kipnes

Latest Blog Posts

Parenting: The Challenging of Letting Go (spoken word poetry)

October 15, 2021

In this spoken word poem, explore how Abraham’s parents might have felt as he went off from Haran to the Promised Land, in search of his future. Read more

God Damn You, God! Taking God to Task in a Messed Up World

September 30, 2021

What’s with the raging wildfires and destructive flooding, the mass shootings and mindless meanness all around? How many more need to die to motivate Your mercy, to finally get You to act on our behalf? What the heck is going on with You, God? Read more

Rabbi, Do You Have a Faith That Gets You Through?

September 17, 2021

How I found faith that got me through these tumultuous years. Read more

Guided Meditation: I Know I’m Not Alone

September 9, 2021

A guided meditation on the notion that we are not alone, created to respond to the pervasive isolation people have been feeling in the Covid-19 pandemic. Read more

Kindergarten Wisdom for an Adult World

September 8, 2021

May we be written for a good year in the Book of Life! And perhaps that will happen if we go back to basics. If we go back to kindergarten and be our best selves. Read more

After Death: 8 Ways to Help

July 9, 2021

When both my parents and mother-in-law died within 20 months, everyone wanted to help. Yet I wasn’t ready to receive. Here are 8 ways to help that supported me until I was ready for me. Read more

Transform Your Synagogue’s High Holy Day Appeal (Then Finally Focus on the Important Stuff)

May 2, 2021

Transform the High Holy Day Appeal now and your synagogue just might nurture a greater culture of giving. Then, defying the prognosticators of the decline of the synagogue, yours might find itself with the funding to forge ahead, fashioning a future filled with hope and excitement. Here’s how Congregation Or… Read more

Dear Synagogue Leaders: Go Back Better (to In-Person)

April 29, 2021

Addressing synagogue leaders, this letter wonders aloud about how we can go back better to in-person synagogue life, especially for our staff and clergy. Read more

Synagogue Dues are Dead: What’s the Price Point at Which Quitting the Temple is Impossible?

March 7, 2021

Synagogue Dues are Dead, so what’s the price point at which quitting the temple becomes unnecessary or nearly impossible? How Congregation Or Ami transformed our funding model. Read more