I find myself in San Francisco at the Conference of the CCAR, Reform Jewish rabbis. Four day devoted to figuring out how to lead and sometimes push the Jewish world into the future. Lots of discussion surrounding the changing Jewish world. Rabbi Steve Fox, exec VP of the CCAR, is challenging us to recognize we are in a "neutral zone," a place between what was and what is, between the comfort of the way we hve done things and the anxiety of figuring out how to do it differen