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Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
As parents, we spend years mastering the art of raising children. Guiding, protecting and nurturing them through childhood and...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
Parenting adult children requires new skills and a fresh perspective. Drawing from Torah wisdom, expert insights, and personal experiences, Rabbi Paul Kipnes explores the joys and challenges of this transformative phase. Discover how to foster deeper, more authentic connections with your adult children to support this sacred work.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 21, 20244 min read


Thanksgiving: Don’t Let Political Disruptions Ruin Your Dinner
“Rabbi, help! Thanksgiving’s approaching and we have relatives whose positions differ from my own—on what is happening between Israel and...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 5, 20244 min read
Thanksgiving: Don’t Let Political Disruptions Ruin Your Dinner
Wisdom to ensure you don’t let political disruptions ruin your Thanksgiving dinner

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Nov 21, 20234 min read
Parenting: The Challenging of Letting Go (spoken word poetry)
In this spoken word poem, explore how Abraham's parents might have felt as he went off from Haran to the Promised Land, in search of his future.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 15, 20214 min read


Parenting: The Challenging of Letting Go (spoken word poetry)
Lech l’cha ! Get moving. Your future is ahead. Become your destiny. Get going. (“Leave us behind,” it seems, Remained unsaid.) Torah...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 2, 20214 min read


Letter to Your Future Self: Hold onto those Silver Linings
Ah, silver linings: those deliciously meaningful moments that make sheltering at home manageable and sometimes even inspirational. No...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 10, 20206 min read


Letter to Your Future Self: Hold onto those Silver Linings
Write a letter or a make a video to your future self who will exist five or six months from now. Remind yourself about the silver linings you want to continue to embrace. Maybe, just maybe, you will listen to yourself.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 19, 20206 min read


Seeing Daddy in the Mirror
Spoken word poetry about seeing Dad in the mirror, and seeing dad within me.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Aug 11, 20192 min read


Father Knows How. When Will I?
I always wondered how my Dad gained all that wisdom and I wondered if I would ever gain that depth of wisdom to be able to help my children when they needed to navigate their lives.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jun 16, 20193 min read


Mensch-ify My Kid: Giving Young Families What They Want
Be a Mensch, that's what Or Ami's innovative parenting and pre-K to 6th grade learning program is all about. Mensch-ify my Kid, Mensch-ify my Home, Mensch-ify my Playground.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 31, 20195 min read


Creating an Escape for Teens After the SoCal Fires and Shooting
How might synagogues and Jewish communities respond to the needs of teens to express their inner turmoil and to learn new techniques for managing stress and emotional exhaustion?
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 11, 20194 min read
We are Here for You: A Clergy Letter about Sexual Violence
The rabbis and cantor of Congregation Or Ami sent this letter about sexual violence to our adult congregants, our 9th-12th graders, recent high school graduates (18-22 year olds), and our faculty. We also sent a note to parents of 7th-12th graders with suggestions on conversations with their children.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 4, 20183 min read
I Held a Newborn Baby Today
Reflections on holding a newborn baby
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 27, 20181 min read


Mom Turns 80: Insights from a Wise Woman
Birthday wisdom from my 80 Year Old mother
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 21, 20181 min read


Teen Mental Health: Rolling Darkness into Light
Why did Congregation Or Ami focus our energies on creating a mental health and wellness retreat? Because today's teens are particularly stressed out, overwhelmed by anxiety, buffetted by the emotional turmoil engendered by social media. They crave support and relief.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 11, 20184 min read


Lifting the Veil of Silence about Mental Illness
It is time for us to lift the veil of silence around mental illness, talking about it and our mental health journeys. Especially in the Jewish community.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 4, 20179 min read


How My Synagogue Helped My Child Save Herself (in her Battle with Depression)
A mother speaks about her appreciation that the Congregation Or Ami and its rabbis offered deep support for their daughter on her battle with depression.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 3, 20173 min read


Confessions from the Edge of a Cliff: My Teen Mental Health Journey
Teen Dani, an 11th grader, shared her mental health journey (through depression) to an overflowing synagogue on Yom Kippur.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 2, 20177 min read


Isaac’s Story in the Akedah: The Two Walked on Together
What are Isaac's thoughts on the Akedah, when his dad almost sacrificed him? A first person perspective about sons and fathers.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Sep 25, 201710 min read
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