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Passover in Full Color: Blacks and Jews Broke (Unleavened) Bread
Each seder gathered a constellation of color and courage: Blacks and Jews, Black Jews and people of color—Bishops and Rabbis, churches and synagogues, choir singing, and the cacophony of connection and contemplation— We were a veritable mosaic of Moses’ people, linking arms, lifting hearts, lamenting and loving in equal measure.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 18, 20253 min read


Remembering Rabbi Stanley M. Davids
A tribute to my rabbi, mentor, and friend, Stanley M. Davids, who died recently.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Sanctuary in a Jazz Club
A jazz club. A Torah whisper. A T-shirt with a prophet’s promise. Reflections from the CCAR rabbinic convention on listening for the sacred in unexpected places—and improvising our way toward hope.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 29, 20254 min read


The Things We Do for Love
Love lives in the details—the small, intentional acts that show we care. Vayakhel teaches us that just as the Israelites built the Mishkan with devotion, we create holiness in our own lives through everyday gestures, like getting the right mustard and mayonnaise for my wife—because love, like faith, is best expressed in the language the other understands.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 21, 20253 min read


Finding the Holy in the Everyday: Lessons from Sand Dollars and Nature’s Wonders
Wow! God was in this place, and I did not know it.” Like Jacob, we often miss the Divine Presence all around us. This article explores how sand dollars, mezuzot, and nature help us rediscover the sacred in daily life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 29, 20243 min read


Climbing the Ladder to Self-Acceptance: Fulfilling a Childhood Dream on My 61st Birthday
Sitting on a Fire Truck: A story of overcoming shyness and self-doubt, embracing self-acceptance, and fulfilling a childhood dream of sitting on a firetruck at 61 years old

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 25, 20242 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
Parenting adult children requires new skills and a fresh perspective. Drawing from Torah wisdom, expert insights, and personal experiences, Rabbi Paul Kipnes explores the joys and challenges of this transformative phase. Discover how to foster deeper, more authentic connections with your adult children to support this sacred work.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 21, 20244 min read


What a Double Funeral and Double Bat Mitzvah Taught Me about Connection
Reflecting on love, healing, and connection through the intertwined lives of a couple laid to rest together at their funeral and twin sisters celebrating their B’not Mitzvah. Discover the profound lessons of relationships and the tree of life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 16, 20244 min read
When the World Seems Hopeless
How to find hope when the world feels hopeless.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Sep 26, 20237 min read


My Chiropracter Prepared Me for Rosh Hashana
How my chiropractor prepared me for Rosh Hashana.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Sep 23, 20234 min read


They Spit on the Sefer Torah
In an act so heinous to Jews, an orthodox Jewish young woman spit on the Torah scroll. That's what the ultra-orthodox leadership is fostering in their opposition to Women of the Wall and of progressive Judaism.
pjkip23
Mar 6, 20234 min read
Sermon: That Time My Wife Was Spit on... In Jerusalem... By a Jew
Sermon: That Time My wife was spit on... in Jerusalem... by a Jew. AKA: Rejecting Tribalism, Embracing Discomfort
pjkip23
Oct 7, 20221 min read


When the Rabbi Feels Trauma
A mass shooting in a Pittsburgh synagogue.A mass shooting in the local dance bar.A raging fire, forcing the evacuation of the synagogue and 75 percent of our congregation. This is the story of when the rabbi experienced trauma after these events.
pjkip23
Feb 15, 20221 min read


God Damn You, God! Taking God to Task in a Messed Up World
What’s with the raging wildfires and destructive flooding, the mass shootings and mindless meanness all around? How many more need to die to motivate Your mercy, to finally get You to act on our behalf? What the heck is going on with You, God?
pjkip23
Sep 30, 20217 min read
Rabbi, Do You Have a Faith That Gets You Through?
How I found faith that got me through these tumultuous years.
pjkip23
Sep 17, 20216 min read


After Death: 8 Ways to Help
When both my parents and mother-in-law died within 20 months, everyone wanted to help. Yet I wasn't ready to receive. Here are 8 ways to help that supported me until I was ready for me.
pjkip23
Jul 9, 20215 min read
After 11 deaths in 11 days, I Had it Out with God
After 11 deaths in 11 days, I had it out with God. I realized with over 419,000 dead in American fromCovid-19 decimating, it was time for that conversation with the Creator.
pjkip23
Feb 4, 20219 min read


COVID-Kavod CONNECTION: Healing the Social Isolation of a Viral Death
COVID-19 could kill us, but it shouldn’t also bring shame upon us or our infected loved ones. And it won’t. Unless we play into the growing stigma that is at once immoral and dangerous to our mental health. If we play into that stigma, then COVID-19 will do both: shame us unfairly while increasing the chances it might kill us.
pjkip23
Apr 10, 20205 min read


We Have been Here Before: Spiritual Wisdom for Enduring Covid-19
I feel this sense of deja vu as we began to cancel plans and hunker down. Yes, the coronavirus-compelled communal self-quarantine descending upon our county, state and country felt vaguely familiar. Here's how we get through then and will now.
pjkip23
Mar 13, 20205 min read


Seth Front on L'dor Vador: HUC-JIR Interns Positively Influence My Daughter
In a speech at Hebrew Union-College-Jewish Institute of Religion, Or Ami congregant Seth Front kvells about the positive impact that Congregation Or Ami interns and rabbis have had on their daughter Amanda.
pjkip23
Oct 27, 20194 min read
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