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The Star She Put Back On
On Yom Kippur morning, Matt, Alli, and Charlie Seigel took the bimah at Congregation Or Ami to tell their family's story — a childhood taunt on a ballfield, a mother's grief that led her home, and a Jewish star a daughter once took off and chose to put back on.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Sep 246 min read


A Sacred Gift Saves a Life: Or Ami Comes Together for Scott Sorrentino
Congregation Or Ami united to support Scott Sorrentino’s search for a kidney donor, inspiring hope, compassion, and the power to save a life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jun 214 min read


Why Did God Create Us with Two Kidneys? A Story about Kidney Donation
Why did God create us with two kidneys if one is enough? Through a rabbi’s imagination and a Jewish midrashic lens, this reflection explores how generosity may be built into us from the very beginning—and how one person’s gift can become another person’s miracle.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jun 182 min read


What Happens When You Invite Strangers to Neighborhood Shabbat Dinner?
What happens when strangers gather for Shabbat? Around candlelight, challah, and conversation, homes become sacred space and community begin

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 204 min read


Finding Balance When The World Feels Out of Control
When life feels faru’a - unrestrained and uncertain - Torah invites us to gather ourselves again. A reflection on Ki Tissa, leadership, the golden calf, grief, and the grounding wisdom of Rabbi Dr. Andrea Weiss.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 55 min read


Passover in Full Color: Blacks and Jews Broke (Unleavened) Bread
Each seder gathered a constellation of color and courage: Blacks and Jews, Black Jews and people of color—Bishops and Rabbis, churches and synagogues, choir singing, and the cacophony of connection and contemplation— We were a veritable mosaic of Moses’ people, linking arms, lifting hearts, lamenting and loving in equal measure.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 18, 20253 min read


Passover in Full Color: Blacks and Jews Broke (Unleavened) Bread
We sat around tables— round like the world we wished for, flat like the matzah we broke, layered like the stories we shared. Two seders....

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 14, 20253 min read


Sanctuary in a Jazz Club
Jazz was my sanctuary that night in Chicago. Michelle and I had slipped into the Jazz Showcase , where saxophonist Bobby Watson , the...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 6, 20254 min read


Remembering Rabbi Stanley M. Davids
This week I said goodbye to my rabbi, my mentor, my friend. In that moment, I lost one of the great anchors of my life. Rabbi Stanley M....

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 6, 20253 min read


Remembering Rabbi Stanley M. Davids
A tribute to my rabbi, mentor, and friend, Stanley M. Davids, who died recently.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 4, 20253 min read


Sanctuary in a Jazz Club
A jazz club. A Torah whisper. A T-shirt with a prophet’s promise. Reflections from the CCAR rabbinic convention on listening for the sacred in unexpected places—and improvising our way toward hope.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 29, 20254 min read


The Things We Do for Love
Love lives in the details—the small, intentional acts that show we care. Vayakhel teaches us that just as the Israelites built the Mishkan with devotion, we create holiness in our own lives through everyday gestures, like getting the right mustard and mayonnaise for my wife—because love, like faith, is best expressed in the language the other understands.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 21, 20253 min read


The Things We Do for Love
This week, I made a special trip to Gelson’s. Not for Shabbat flowers, not for wine, not even for the babka (though it took everything in...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 9, 20253 min read


Climbing the Ladder to Self-Acceptance: Fulfilling a Childhood Dream on My 61st Birthday
When I was in elementary school, my mom took me to visit a fire station. I cannot remember if it was a family outing, a school trip or...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 9, 20252 min read


Finding the Holy in the Everyday: Lessons from Sand Dollars and Nature’s Wonders
“Wow! God was in this place, and I did not know it.” So declared our biblical ancestor Jacob as he awoke from a dream. Once a deceiver...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 9, 20253 min read


What a Double Funeral and Double Bat Mitzvah Taught Me about Connection
This past Shabbat, I stood in two sacred spaces that illuminated the beauty, fragility and resilience of life. One moment, I found myself...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
As parents, we spend years mastering the art of raising children. Guiding, protecting and nurturing them through childhood and...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Finding the Holy in the Everyday: Lessons from Sand Dollars and Nature’s Wonders
Wow! God was in this place, and I did not know it.” Like Jacob, we often miss the Divine Presence all around us. This article explores how sand dollars, mezuzot, and nature help us rediscover the sacred in daily life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 29, 20243 min read


Climbing the Ladder to Self-Acceptance: Fulfilling a Childhood Dream on My 61st Birthday
Sitting on a Fire Truck: A story of overcoming shyness and self-doubt, embracing self-acceptance, and fulfilling a childhood dream of sitting on a firetruck at 61 years old

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 25, 20242 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
Parenting adult children requires new skills and a fresh perspective. Drawing from Torah wisdom, expert insights, and personal experiences, Rabbi Paul Kipnes explores the joys and challenges of this transformative phase. Discover how to foster deeper, more authentic connections with your adult children to support this sacred work.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 21, 20244 min read
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