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Halfway Through the High Holy Days
A pre-Yom Kippur prayer by Rabbi Paul Kipnes for the volunteers, staff, clergy, and teams who carry a congregation through the High Holy Days.
Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Sep 201 min read


A Sacred Gift Saves a Life: Or Ami Comes Together for Scott Sorrentino
Congregation Or Ami united to support Scott Sorrentino’s search for a kidney donor, inspiring hope, compassion, and the power to save a life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jun 214 min read


When Sitting Shiva Is Not Possible: Jewish Paths Through Grief When Life Gets in the Way
When someone we love dies, Judaism offers the gift of shiva. But what happens when family, work, travel, health concerns, or distance make traditional shiva impossible? Rabbi Paul Kipnes explores meaningful Jewish practices that can help mourners honor a loved one, embrace grief, and find comfort when sitting shiva is not possible.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jun 165 min read


Karpas Ritual of Dipping: Holding Opposites
A ritual for before dipping the karpas into the salt water, we pause to reflect on what it means to hold both sweetness and sorrow.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 310 min read


To Be a Jew Today: A Blessing for a Broken World
In a fearful world, Judaism still calls us to bring blessing into brokenness. Rabbi Paul Kipnes asks: What does it mean to be a Jew today?

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Oct 5, 20255 min read


Sanctuary in a Jazz Club
Jazz was my sanctuary that night in Chicago. Michelle and I had slipped into the Jazz Showcase , where saxophonist Bobby Watson , the...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 6, 20254 min read


From Tohu VaVohu to Tikvah
In the beginning— before beginnings had breath— there was tohu vavohu, not just chaos, but collapse. Not just void, but the violence of...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Apr 6, 20252 min read


Sanctuary in a Jazz Club
A jazz club. A Torah whisper. A T-shirt with a prophet’s promise. Reflections from the CCAR rabbinic convention on listening for the sacred in unexpected places—and improvising our way toward hope.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 29, 20254 min read


From Tohu VaVohu to Tikvah
A spoken word poem about facing the reality before our world

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Mar 29, 20252 min read


Climbing the Ladder to Self-Acceptance: Fulfilling a Childhood Dream on My 61st Birthday
When I was in elementary school, my mom took me to visit a fire station. I cannot remember if it was a family outing, a school trip or...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 9, 20252 min read


Finding the Holy in the Everyday: Lessons from Sand Dollars and Nature’s Wonders
“Wow! God was in this place, and I did not know it.” So declared our biblical ancestor Jacob as he awoke from a dream. Once a deceiver...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 9, 20253 min read


A Prayerful Invocation for Calabasas: Celebrating Leadership and Community
For the Calabasas City Council Reorganization Meeting And the Installation of Peter Kraut as Mayor Eternal One, Makor HaBrachot , Source...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Feb 9, 20253 min read


What a Double Funeral and Double Bat Mitzvah Taught Me about Connection
This past Shabbat, I stood in two sacred spaces that illuminated the beauty, fragility and resilience of life. One moment, I found myself...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
As parents, we spend years mastering the art of raising children. Guiding, protecting and nurturing them through childhood and...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Jan 12, 20254 min read


Finding the Holy in the Everyday: Lessons from Sand Dollars and Nature’s Wonders
Wow! God was in this place, and I did not know it.” Like Jacob, we often miss the Divine Presence all around us. This article explores how sand dollars, mezuzot, and nature help us rediscover the sacred in daily life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 29, 20243 min read


A Prayerful Invocation for Calabasas: Celebrating Leadership and Community
Rabbi Paul Kipnes of Congregation Or Ami offers a heartfelt invocation at the Calabasas City Council Reorganization Meeting, celebrating the installation of Mayor Peter Kraut. Reflecting on leadership, unity, and the city’s vision, the prayer calls for compassion, courage, and a commitment to community care.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 27, 20243 min read


Climbing the Ladder to Self-Acceptance: Fulfilling a Childhood Dream on My 61st Birthday
Sitting on a Fire Truck: A story of overcoming shyness and self-doubt, embracing self-acceptance, and fulfilling a childhood dream of sitting on a firetruck at 61 years old

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 25, 20242 min read


Parenting Adult Children: The Sacred Work of Growth and Transformation
Parenting adult children requires new skills and a fresh perspective. Drawing from Torah wisdom, expert insights, and personal experiences, Rabbi Paul Kipnes explores the joys and challenges of this transformative phase. Discover how to foster deeper, more authentic connections with your adult children to support this sacred work.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 21, 20244 min read


What a Double Funeral and Double Bat Mitzvah Taught Me about Connection
Reflecting on love, healing, and connection through the intertwined lives of a couple laid to rest together at their funeral and twin sisters celebrating their B’not Mitzvah. Discover the profound lessons of relationships and the tree of life.

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
Dec 16, 20244 min read


Thanksgiving: Don’t Let Political Disruptions Ruin Your Dinner
“Rabbi, help! Thanksgiving’s approaching and we have relatives whose positions differ from my own—on what is happening between Israel and...

Rabbi Paul Kipnes
May 5, 20244 min read
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